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National September 11 Memorial & Museum

 A tribute to the past and a place of hope for the future — the 9/11 Memorial Plaza is alive with twin spirits of remembrance & renewal. The 8-acre park is a supremely contemplative sanctuary, composed of a grove of nearly 400 white oak trees, and the largest manmade waterfalls in the United States. Set within the footprints of the original Twin Towers, each pool is approximately 1-acre in size. The names of every person who perished in the terror attacks of February 26, 1993 & September 11, 2001 are honored in bronze around the twin Memorial pools.

 
The Sphere photo before the 911 World Trade Center.  

The only symbol of The Twin towers that survived to tell the story.  

    

                                 

I named “The tree of life”, the only surviving tree that remains at the site of twin towers. 

  
    
Today we went to visit the memorial and I was telling my daughter about 911. I told her that we came to celebrate life, and send positive energy to all the friends and families who lost their beloved ones. 

I hope to see in the near future more love, peace and understanding between the nations.

 

The memorial is located at the site of the former World Trade Center complex in lower Manhattan. It features two waterfalls and reflecting pools, each roughly an acre in size and set within the footprints of the original twin towers. 
The pools are bordered by bronze panels that bear the names of the nearly 3,000 people who died in the September 11, 2001, attacks at the World Trade Center site, the Pentagon and near Shanksville, Pa., as well as in the 1993 World Trade Center bombing. Among the names are the two MetLife associates lost on September 11, Financial Services Representative Abraham Ilowitz and Sales Support Associate Gye-Hyong Park.  
 

” My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.”

  Maya Angelou

“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” 

Maya Angelou 

“Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.” 

Maya Angelou 

“What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.”

 Ralph Waldo Emerson
 “I thank you God for this most amazing day, for the leaping greenly spirits of trees, and for the blue dream of sky and for everything which is natural, which is infinite, which is yes.”

e. e. cummings  “Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”
Robert Frost
 “All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.


The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,
When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, –That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.–Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.
He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.

He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.

He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.

He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.

He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.

He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.

He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.

He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:

For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:

For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:

For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:

For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences

For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:

For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:

For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.

He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.

He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.

He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.

He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.

He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.
Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.
We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.
The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:


Georgia:
Button Gwinnett

Lyman Hall

George Walton
North Carolina:
William Hooper

Joseph Hewes

John Penn
South Carolina:

Edward Rutledge

Thomas Heyward, Jr.

Thomas Lynch, Jr.

Arthur Middleton
Massachusetts:

John Hancock
Maryland:

Samuel Chase

William Paca

Thomas Stone

Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia:

George Wythe

Richard Henry Lee

Thomas Jefferson

Benjamin Harrison

Thomas Nelson, Jr.

Francis Lightfoot Lee

Carter Braxton
Pennsylvania:

Robert Morris

Benjamin Rush

Benjamin Franklin

John Morton

George Clymer

James Smith

George Taylor

James Wilson

George Ross
Delaware:

Caesar Rodney

George Read

Thomas McKean
New York:

William Floyd

Philip Livingston

Francis Lewis

Lewis Morris
New Jersey:

Richard Stockton

John Witherspoon

Francis Hopkinson

John Hart

Abraham Clark
New Hampshire:

Josiah Bartlett

William Whipple

Massachusetts:

Samuel Adams

John Adams

Robert Treat Paine

Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island:

Stephen Hopkins

William Ellery
Connecticut:

Roger Sherman

Samuel Huntington

William Williams

Oliver Wolcott
New Hampshire:

Matthew Thornton

 
Lesson 1: Definiteness of Purpose

Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. Without a purpose and a plan, people drift aimlessly through life.
Lesson 2: Mastermind Alliance

The Mastermind principle consists of an alliance of two or more minds working in perfect harmony for the attainment of a common definite objective. Success does not come without the cooperation of others.

Lesson 3: Applied Faith

Faith is a state of mind through which your aims, desires, plans and purposes may be translated into their physical or financial equivalent.

Lesson 4: Going the Extra Mile

Going the extra mile is the action of rendering more and better service than that for which you are presently paid. When you go the extra mile, the Law of Compensation comes into play.

Lesson 5: Pleasing Personality

Personality is the sum total of one’s mental, spiritual and physical traits and habits that distinguish one from all others. It is the factor that determines whether one is liked or disliked by others.

Lesson 6: Personal Initiative

Personal initiative is the power that inspires the completion of that which one begins. It is the power that starts all action. No person is free until he learns to do his own thinking and gains the courage to act on his own.

Lesson 7: Positive Mental Attitude

Positive mental attitude is the right mental attitude in all circumstances. Success attracts more success while failure attracts more failure.

Lesson 8: Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is faith in action. It is the intense emotion known as burning desire. It comes from within, although it radiates outwardly in the expression of one’s voice and countenance.

Lesson 9: Self-Discipline

Self-discipline begins with the mastery of thought. If you do not control your thoughts, you cannot control your needs. Self-discipline calls for a balancing of the emotions of your heart with the reasoning faculty of your head.

Lesson 10: Accurate Thinking

The power of thought is the most dangerous or the most beneficial power available to man, depending on how it is used.

Lesson 11: Controlled Attention

Controlled attention leads to mastery in any type of human endeavor, because it enables one to focus the powers of his mind upon the attainment of a definite objective and to keep it so directed at will.

Lesson 12: Teamwork

Teamwork is harmonious cooperation that is willing, voluntary and free. Whenever the spirit of teamwork is the dominating influence in business or industry, success is inevitable. Harmonious cooperation is a priceless asset that you can acquire in proportion to your giving.

Lesson 13: Adversity & Defeat

Individual success usually is in exact proportion of the scope of the defeat the individual has experienced and mastered. Many so-called failures represent only a temporary defeat that may prove to be a blessing in disguise.

Lesson 14: Creative Vision

Creative vision is developed by the free and fearless use of one’s imagination. It is not a miraculous quality with which one is gifted or is not gifted at birth.

Lesson 15: Health

Sound health begins with a sound health consciousness, just as financial success begins with a prosperity consciousness.

Lesson 16: Budgeting Time & Money

Time and money are precious resources, and few people striving for success ever believe they possess either one in excess.

Lesson 17: Habits

Developing and establishing positive habits leads to peace of mind, health and financial security. You are where you are because of your established habits and thoughts and deeds.  

 
“The starting point of all achievement is desire.”

“If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way.”

“Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.”

“A goal is a dream with a deadline.”

“Procrastination is the bad habit of putting of until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday.”

“Any idea, plan, or purpose may be placed in the mind through repetition of thought.”

“What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

Napoleon Hill

  

Don’t be a fish; be a frog. Swim in the water and jump when you hit ground.”

Kim Young-ha 

  “Jump, and you will find out how to unfold your wings as you fall.”

Ray Bradbury 

  “To succeed, jump as quickly at opportunities as you do at conclusions.”

Benjamin Franklin

“When you jump for joy, beware that no one moves the ground from beneath your feet.”

Stanislaw Jerzy Lec  

  “Sometimes you just have to jump off the cliff without knowing where you will land.”

Zainab Salbi

“Sometimes, if you aren’t sure about something, you just have to jump off the bridge and grow your wings on the way down.”

Danielle Steel  

“When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don’t throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer.”

Corrie Ten Boom

“Of course, I think that people are just waiting for that time when I make a mistake and they’re gonna jump on it…. There’s gonna be haters.”

Justin Bieber





 

be·gin·ning
bəˈɡiniNG

New beginning !
  

 “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

Oscar Wilde


 “The beginning is the most important part of the work.”

Plato

“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”

Seneca

“When I see a white piece of paper, I feel I’ve got to draw. And drawing, for me, is the beginning of everything.”

Ellsworth Kelly


  

The world we live in expect us humans to move  super fast! 

Living in a World where maximum results are expected with minimal effort given. Yes, That’s right! There is no way we can ever grab a hold of our lives completely when we are too caught up in the awful habit of playing the blame game.So let’s begin by making the firm decision that no single event or person is going to dictate your level of achievement.Start by forcing  yourself to stop looking outside of yourself for things you are in control of.No single event or person is going to dictate your level of achievement therefore you can be who you want to be. 

“To be or not to be, this is the big question!” Adriana Sassoon 

Procrastination

  

Excuses

  

Blame

  



Se Apaixone Por Um Grande Homem

  

Por: Arnaldo Jabor

Nós homens nos caracterizamos por ser o sexo forte, embora muitas vezes caiamos por debilidade. Um dia, minha irmã chorava em sua casa… Com muita saudade, observei que meu pai chegou perto dela e perguntou o motivo de sua tristeza. Escutei-os conversando por horas, mas houve uma frase tão especial que meu pai disse naquela tarde, que até o dia de hoje ainda me recordo a cada manhã e que me enche de força. Meu pai acariciou o rosto dela e disse:

 “Minha filha, apaixone-se por Um Grande Homem e nunca mais voltará a chorar”. 

Perguntei-me tantas vezes, qual era a fórmula exata para chegar a ser esse grande homem e não deixar-me vencer pelas coisas pequenas… Com o passar dos anos, descobri que se tão somente todos nós homens lutássemos por ser grandes de espírito, grandes de alma e grandes de coração, O mundo seria completamente diferente!

Aprendi que um Grande Homem não é aquele que compra tudo o que deseja, porque muitos de nós compramos com presentes a afeição e o respeito daqueles que nos cercam.

Meu pai lhe dizia:

Não se apaixone por um homem que só fale de si mesmo, de seus problemas, sem preocupar-se com você… Enamore-se de um homem que se interesse por você, que conheça suas forças, suas ilusões, suas tristezas e que a ajude a superá-las.

 Não creia nas palavras de um homem quando seus atos dizem o oposto. Afaste de sua vida um homem que não constrói com você um mundo melhor. Ele jamais sairá do seu lado, pois você é a sua fonte de energia… Foge de um homem enfermo espiritual e emocionalmente, é como um câncer matará tudo o que há em você (emocional, mental, física, social e economicamente)

“Não dê atenção a um homem que não seja capaz de expressar seus sentimentos, que não queira lhe dar amor.”

Não se agarre a um homem que não seja capaz de reconhecer sua beleza interior e exterior e suas qualidades morais. Não deixe entrar em sua vida um homem a quem tenha que adivinhar o que quer, porque não é capaz de se expressar abertamente. 
“Não se enamore de um homem que ao conhecê-lo, sua vida tenha se transformado em um problema a resolver e não em algo para desfrutar”. 

Não se apaixone por um homem que demonstre frieza, insensibilidade, falta de atenção com você, corra léguas dele. Não creia em um homem que tenha carências afetivas de infância e que trata de preenchê-las com a infidelidade, culpando-a, quando o problema não está em você, e sim nele, porque não sabe o que quer da vida, nem quais são suas prioridades. Por que querer um homem que a abandonará se você não for como ele pretendia, ou se já não é mais útil? 

Por que querer um homem que a trocará por um cabelo ou uma cor de pele diferente, ou por uns olhos claros, ou por um corpo mais esbelto? 

Por que querer um homem que não saiba admirar a beleza que há em você, a verdadeira beleza… a do coração? 

Quantas vezes me deixei levar pela superficialidade das coisas, deixando de lado aqueles que realmente me ofereciam sua sinceridade e integridade e dando mais importância a quem não valorizava meu esforço? 

 

Custou-me muito compreender que GRANDE HOMEM não é aquele que chega no topo, nem o que tem mais dinheiro, casa, automóvel, nem quem vive rodeado de mulheres, nem muito menos o mais bonito. Um grande homem é aquele ser humano transparente, que não se refugia atrás de cortinas de fumaça, é o que abre seu CORAÇÃO sem rejeitar a realidade, é quem admira uma mulher por seus alicerces morais e grandeza interior. 

Um grande homem é o que cai e tem suficiente força para levantar-se e seguir lutando… Hoje minha irmã está casada e feliz, e esse Grande Homem com quem se casou, não era nem o mais popular, nem o mais solicitado pelas mulheres, nem o mais rico ou o mais bonito. 

Esse Grande Homem é simplesmente aquele que nunca a fez chorar… É QUEM NO LUGAR DE LÁGRIMAS LHE ROUBOU SORRISOS… Sorrisos por tudo que viveram e conquistaram juntos, pelos triunfos alcançados, por suas lindas recordações e por aquelas tristes lembranças que souberam superar, por cada alegria que repartem e pelos 3 filhos que preenchem suas vidas. 

Esse Grande Homem ama tanto a minha irmã que daria o que fosse por ela sem pedir nada em troca… Esse Grande Homem a quer pelo que ela é, por seu coração e pelo que são quando estão juntos.

Aprendamos a ser um desses Grandes Homens, para vivenciar os anos junto de uma Grande Mulher e NADA NEM NINGUÉM NOS PODERÁ VENCER!

  

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